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Welcome to video 29 in our challenge series! This challenge is created to help you make the space in your life to begin your journey to Empty Nest Success. Don't hesitate to log in and ask questions in the comment section!
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Reflect on your beliefs about love. How do you define love, and what does it mean to you personally?
Currently, do you love conditionally?
What thought-box deliveries arrived as I watched this video?
"Love is the joy of the good, the wonder of the wise, the amazement of the gods." - Plato
Was there something today that brought you joy/made you laugh/got your creative juices going? If not, take a look at this list for some ideas of things you may want to try in the future.
Wow, we are in the penultimate video. I'm so proud of you! You're freaking amazing! This video is pretty self explanatory I'm gonna show you the original one as soon as I'm done making this comment. And really about love, it is thinking about how you want to be loved. Do you want to be loved conditionally, where I only love you if you do this in this for me? Or, do you want to have done the work; clearing out all the clutter in your mind; training your protector; taking the time to uncover who you are: to know who you are; to love yourself; to know what brings you joy; to show up authentically -and then have your loved ones love you for how you show up for who you are: they know you have bad days and good days, but they love you. They love you because you're authentically you. And I share that because this is what we want to do for our kids, too. And our partners - all of our relationships. When we allow them the space to show up as who they are, and love them authentically for who they are in their soul knowing that more than likely they haven't been able to clear the clutter, and to discover who they are. It's not our job to help them do that, but know that the best thing you can do is take care of yourself.
01:59 Provide the example by the way you live, they might pick up on it, they might not. Love them for who they are, who they are now, who they're going to become. You can see all their potential and it's wonderful. Love is something you gift yourself, and something you choose to do for someone. It doesn't mean you have to continue to be around somebody who isn't good for you, but you can stay together, move apart, come together, work together for some moments, separate come together - and this is an all relationships, all of this in a loving way. Knowing that sometimes the best thing for each other is to have space, and sometimes the best thing is to work together. But ultimately, the work you do here on yourself is going to provide amazing new experiences for you in your journey ahead that are all yours and are powerful. I'm gonna leave it there. Journal on what this brings up.
03:40 This may bring up a lot of thoughts, ideas, comments, questions. If you're a C.E.O. Training Team member, please feel free to mention anything that you want to talk about in our power hours and we will go from there. You're amazing. Tomorrow is our - whenever you watch the next video - is our final video in the 30-Day challenge to Empty Nest Success and you've done well to get this far. I will see you next time. And as always, you are amazing. Here's our video.
04:18 Today's topic is loving others. When loving someone do you see it as something you have chosen to do rather than something that happens to you? Can you love someone who doesn't love you back? Yes, of course that's possible. The point is that an experience in a relationship is each person's experience. What if you decide what love feels like to you and what it means? What if you learn to love who you are for being fully you and begin to see your child partner loved ones for who they are without expectations? Take notice of your thoughts when you feel love or unloving toward others and yourself. Assess if you're happy with your answers. If not, start by finding the most recent thought-box delivery and go from there. More on that back in day 16 of the challenge. Remember. you are amazing!